I listen to so many moms that are mired in the day to day caring of babies, toddlers and young people, that get frustrated because they have no time to do what they want to do. They are delighted with their young ones, but long for some creative time, or personal time for themselves. I too felt that way many times, but alas, age has me in a place now where I have one (not so small) young one left at home. Being a teen, he doesn't need me for every little thing anymore, and I'm okay with that. He's growing into the man God created him to be, and it's very important to me that he learns to be independent, so he will have a full life. After having many birds fly from my nest, I have seen what is good, and not so good. I am pleased with how my last one is growing. I am also thrilled to find time to do all of those many things I wanted to do forever, but just couldn't-- because of my duties as a mother. I am growing into the woman God created me to be. Yes, He created me to be a mother, and don't get me wrong, I love my job. I have been raising children for more than 30 years. By the time my youngest is 18, I will have been a full-time mom for 38 years. Imagine that. You will probably be a full-time mom for about 20 or so. God knew my heart, and gave me many blessings to raise-including some that didn't actually belong to me! I am thankful. Now, seasons in my home are changing. I will have more time to do what I've always longed to do. This is very exciting! Becoming the bloom that God planted so long ago, is an amazing adventure. I am realizing many dreams as I grow older. I am writing, teaching, creating, learning, and enjoying those moments I do get to myself.
I want to encourage you moms who are weary from your house full of young ones. It does not go on forever, no matter how much you think it will. Honestly, you will turn your head and it's over. Your babies have flown the coop-if you've done your job correctly. Self-sacrifice is a must for you to have children that grow to be great adults. Our job is long, time consuming, many times thankless, and can be very frustrating. It is also the most rewarding job on the planet. You are shaping the future. God's men and women, that He will use for His glory. March on my friends! Hold on to your little ones, as they will be gone before you know it. Enjoy the journey, and know that your future holds great times of self, after you finish this job that God has given to you.
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Also been there and done that. *smile* It's all part of finishing the race God has given US personally. We're all running, but the races are different. Some have a longer road than others, but are all to finish, even if we fall repeatedly or get tripped or whatever. NO running off the track allowed! lol
ReplyDeleteI used to be in track and field in high school and running the hurdles was one thing I did. You HAD to jump the hurdles. Knocking it over might make you fall down....or maybe just put you in last place. But running around the hurdle took you off the track and you were immediately disqualified. Keep on mom's! We all trip, knock our hurdles over and fall sometimes. I want to be there to help others up and keep them from quitting too.
Great encouragement.